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Why I think you should book a professional wedding stationer...

Why I think you should book a professional wedding stationer...

| Becky Smithbury

Wedding planning can feel like sand slipping through your fingers, so let me be your stationery fairy godmother. In this post I explain exactly how a professional stationer takes one big task off your plate: expert help with timing, wording, etiquette and printing, the peace of mind that everything lands on time, and stationery that genuinely wows your guests. You brief the vision, I handle the rest, and you get your time back.

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Paper vs Digital Wedding Invitations - the joy of the tangible

Paper vs Digital Wedding Invitations - the joy of the tangible

| Becky Smithbury

Why don’t I offer digital invitations? I get asked this a lot, so here’s my heartfelt answer. This post is a love letter to paper: the clatter at the letterbox, the textured card in your hands, the tangible connection a screen simply can’t match. I talk through how paper invitations demand attention, become cherished keepsakes, and set the tone for your day, so years on you can open that box of mementos and relive every moment.

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How To Plan Out Your Seating Chart

How To Plan Out Your Seating Chart

| Becky Smithbury

Feeling daunted by the seating chart? You’re not alone, and I promise it’s more manageable than it looks. In this post I walk you through it step by step: starting with your venue’s floor plan, deciding where you and your wedding party will sit, grouping your guest list, and assigning tables before seats. I’ve also included really important advice on accessibility, with help from celebrant Kathryn, so every guest feels genuinely included, not just accommodated.

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Save the Dates - to send, or not to send?

Save the Dates - to send, or not to send?

| Becky Smithbury

To send save the dates, or not to send? My answer is a resounding yes, and in this post I explain exactly why. I cover how they give guests advance notice to book time off and travel (especially handy for destination or midweek weddings), how they act as a lovely pre-invitation, and how they let you show off your wedding theme and build anticipation early. I also share when to send them: around twelve months before, or eighteen for destination dos.

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4 Ways To Make Sure Your Wedding Guests RSVP

4 Ways To Make Sure Your Wedding Guests RSVP

| Becky Smithbury

Chasing RSVPs can be a real headache, but it doesn’t have to be. In this post I share four simple ways to encourage your guests to reply: giving clear instructions on how to respond, including a pre-addressed (ideally stamped) return envelope, offering a few different ways to get back to you, and setting a crystal clear deadline. I also pop in advice for the inevitable stragglers, because a gentle nudge usually does the trick.

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Jo & Tom's Illustrated Portraits & Bespoke Design

Jo & Tom's Illustrated Portraits & Bespoke Design

| Becky Smithbury

Come behind the scenes on one of my all-time favourite bespoke suites. Jo and Tom wanted their wedding stationery to capture their travels as a couple, so I wove in the Taj Mahal, Mount Everest, Mount Fitz Roy, an illustrated portrait of the pair, and a now-legendary monogrammed llama. I share how it all came together in plum watercolour florals and carried through to their order of service, menus and table plan, plus the loveliest email they sent me afterwards.

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How to Choose your wedding theme

How to Choose your wedding theme

| Becky Smithbury

Drowning in Pinterest and no closer to a wedding theme? I’ve been there, and in this post I share three ways to cut through the overwhelm. I talk through letting your season guide your flowers and colours, letting your location (city, barn or outdoors) shape the style, and letting your shared interests as a couple bring in those personal touches. No childhood vision board required, just a few simple starting points to make it all feel like you.

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Colour Crush - Ultra Violet (Pantone Colour of the Year 2018)

Colour Crush - Ultra Violet (Pantone Colour of the Year 2018)

| Becky Smithbury

Pantone crowned Ultra Violet its Colour of the Year for 2018, and I’ll be honest, purple isn’t my favourite. But it really can shine in the right palette, so I spent a happy afternoon on Pinterest proving it. In this post I explain what Pantone is and why it shapes wedding trends, then share three colour palettes: Kindred Spirits softened with rustic pastels, the whimsical sage-and-turquoise Purple Haze, and Quietude, my warm, autumnal favourite.

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