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Designing your love story: how to personalise your wedding stationery

| Becky Smithbury

The short answer: Your wedding stationery is the first glimpse guests get of your day, so make it really feel like you. Bring in personalised illustrations (favourite places, your pets), elements from your heritage (colours, motifs, symbols), a bespoke monogram that runs through the suite like a wedding logo, and meaningful quotes or song lyrics. Threaded across save the dates, invitations and on the day pieces, those touches turn the stationery into something genuinely unique.

Pause for a quick hello- I'm Becky and Hawthorne and Ivory is my wedding stationery design studio. I design colourful, fun-loving save the dates, invitations, on the day pieces (menus, place cards, signage), guest books and thank you cards for UK couples. Personalisation is the heart of everything I make.

Planning your wedding is a beautiful journey that culminates in a day that's as unique as your love story. Your wedding stationery is more than just paper; it's the first glimpse your guests will have into the theme and vibe of your special day. It sets the stage for what's to come!

If you're hoping to inject an extra dose of personality into your wedding stationery... then here's a little nudge on how you and your partner can do exactly that.

Together we can sprinkle your personalities throughout your wedding stationery, turning it into something so unique and so very you. So, let's tuck into a buffet of suggestions on how we can personalise your wedding stationery and make it all truly memorable.

Personalised illustrations on wedding stationery

Make it Meaningful with Personalised Illustrations

Consider featuring illustrations that are significant to your relationship. This could be a drawing of the place where you first met, your favourite hangout spot, or even a collection of your favourite things.

Don't forget we can include your beloved pets in your wedding stationery! They're a big part of your life and can add a wonderfully whimsical element to your designs. Whether it's your dog with a bow tie or your cat nuzzled amongst flowers, these illustrations will surely bring a smile to your guests' faces. It's a sweet homage to your furry family members who might not have made the invite list... and an adorable way to make your stationery stand out.

These illustrations can be used across your save-the-date cards, invitations, on the day stationery (like place cards, welcome signs, and order of service booklets), and even on your thank you notes, creating a consistent and deeply personal theme.

Incorporate Your Heritage

Celebrating your backgrounds is a beautiful way to honour your families and the path that led you to each other. Incorporate elements from your heritage into your wedding stationery through colour schemes, patterns, or motifs. This not only makes your stationery uniquely yours but also pays homage to the roots that nourish your relationship.

In the past my lovely couples have incorporated the colours of their home country's flags, symbolic flowers, and other important cultural elements- like Swedish dala horses!

Include a Personalised Monogram

A bespoke monogram or emblem that combines both of your initials or symbols that represent your relationship is a beautifully personal touch to your wedding stationery.

Think of it as the logo for your wedding- a strong and romantic brand we can use consistently across your décor, invitations, and even thank you notes.

This small yet significant detail adds a level of sophistication and intimacy to your celebration, telling the story of your union in a unique and artistic way. It's like a seal of your love, a symbol that's exclusively yours, threading through the fabric of your wedding day and beyond.

Stationery with heritage elements

Use Meaningful Quotes to Share Your Love

Adding a meaningful quote to your invitation design or a welcome sign can add a layer of intimacy and warmth that welcomes your guests into not just a ceremony, but the story of your love.

Imagine walking into the venue and being greeted by a beautifully designed sign with the lyrics from the song that played as you first locked eyes across a crowded bar... This not only sets the tone for your day but also gives your guests a glimpse into your hearts.

Similarly, including a cherished quote in your invitation suite invites your loved ones into your narrative before the day even arrives. It's touches like this that transform your wedding from a traditional celebration into a personal testament to your love.

Remember, your wedding is a celebration of your love and partnership. The stationery you choose is more than just information- it's a keepsake, a reminder of the day you said "I Do".

Wrap it all up with warmth, a hint of whimsy, and heaps of personal touches to make your guests feel right at home from the get-go. It's all about creating that cozy, intimate vibe, celebrating your one-of-a-kind love, and igniting the joy of creativity.

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For more on finding your perfect style, have a read of how to choose your wedding theme, 3 signs to choose bespoke over semi-custom, or semi-custom stationery- make it your own. And if you're wondering about budget, my pricing guide lays it all out transparently.

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